In marriage there are certainly difficult times faced by the pair . Not infrequently the cause is fairly sensitive issues such as economic problems . That places a big fight between husband and wife . Here are tips to be able to survive the tough times in a marriage like that described Psychologist Phil McGraw or more popularly known as Dr . Phil :
1 . Recognize and solve problems
When the situation is heating up , do not luapkan anger on your spouse . Angry at your partner can make you feel alone in the end it facing the problem. Try Calm yourself and invite your partner to solve problems together. Whatever problems that hit , it must be faced if you and your husband still wants to build a marriage .
2 . Identify the cause
When economic problems at the root of the problem , remember that the fault is not from your partner . It may be that today many people in the world face the problem of economic downturn , debt is piling up , and dismissal . By identifying the trigger quarrels , the couple could be easier to find the right solution to tackle the problem .
3 . Admits fear
For men , do not hesitate to acknowledge the fear. It is legitimate to occasionally express fear and powerlessness you on mate . Because in a relationship should be able to receive a pair in all circumstances , good and bad .
4 . Have emotional honesty
Communication can be established effectively when done with honesty . Try to keep the ego in order to receive feedback from your partner . And when one of the couple has revealed that honesty , commit , do not just think of it as a lip service only.
5 . Willing to ask for help
Do not be afraid to admit that you are not able to sustain the load sendrian . Resist the ego to be able to handle it yourself just be a waste of time and effort , but it is also not your problem can be resolved .
6 . Make a list of priorities , values , and goals
Find a way to be able to appreciate the values upheld by you and your partner . If you think money is not everything , express that opinion and make a plan . Just as the two companies merged , need further discussion to determine a favorable solution for both.
7 . Create a plan
Do not just imagine a solution that needs to be done . Create a plan that contains details of what to do as well as the time span . " The difference between a dream and a plan is a timeline , " said Dr . Phil . From the looks if you are planning your effective solution to tackle the problem .
1 . Recognize and solve problems
When the situation is heating up , do not luapkan anger on your spouse . Angry at your partner can make you feel alone in the end it facing the problem. Try Calm yourself and invite your partner to solve problems together. Whatever problems that hit , it must be faced if you and your husband still wants to build a marriage .
2 . Identify the cause
When economic problems at the root of the problem , remember that the fault is not from your partner . It may be that today many people in the world face the problem of economic downturn , debt is piling up , and dismissal . By identifying the trigger quarrels , the couple could be easier to find the right solution to tackle the problem .
3 . Admits fear
For men , do not hesitate to acknowledge the fear. It is legitimate to occasionally express fear and powerlessness you on mate . Because in a relationship should be able to receive a pair in all circumstances , good and bad .
4 . Have emotional honesty
Communication can be established effectively when done with honesty . Try to keep the ego in order to receive feedback from your partner . And when one of the couple has revealed that honesty , commit , do not just think of it as a lip service only.
5 . Willing to ask for help
Do not be afraid to admit that you are not able to sustain the load sendrian . Resist the ego to be able to handle it yourself just be a waste of time and effort , but it is also not your problem can be resolved .
6 . Make a list of priorities , values , and goals
Find a way to be able to appreciate the values upheld by you and your partner . If you think money is not everything , express that opinion and make a plan . Just as the two companies merged , need further discussion to determine a favorable solution for both.
7 . Create a plan
Do not just imagine a solution that needs to be done . Create a plan that contains details of what to do as well as the time span . " The difference between a dream and a plan is a timeline , " said Dr . Phil . From the looks if you are planning your effective solution to tackle the problem .
