Eid is almost here and time to return home for a big family meeting . But for many couples , it could start going home husband - wife quarrel . to avoid the problems that can occur when returning home , check out some tips from The Sun , which are summarized below :
1 . Determine Who's Returning To Hometown
Most arguments married due to pressure their families to return home . Before going home , talking from far - away days in advance and decide where you and your family will go . Is home to your husband or your place . Give all the logical reasons why this year's Eid should be spent there . If an agreement has been obtained , hubungin parents each if you or your spouse can not spend the holidays in their place .
2 . Costs Incurred
During the holidays and get together with extended family , without knowing you spend money on things that are less important like a play or shopping . Not to mention the preparation of money to nieces and nephews are still small . Many unexpected expenses that can trigger your contention after returning home . For that , the better you estimate expenses , prepare budgets and do not expend more than the money in your wallet . Avoid using a credit card or go to the ATM machine to keep you on your budget .
3 . Relationships with Families
Can not be denied entry into the partner's family is not an easy thing . Some days the residence of his extended family , will be very long if you are not smart taking care of the family. To start a good relationship , you can try to open a conversation with a light discussion to members of his family . If you are in a situation where the law disagreed with you , better give in and agree with his opinion in order to avoid an unpleasant atmosphere during your visit . Avoid cool themselves with a mobile phone or other gadget to give you the impression the family honoring her husband .
4 . Together with a pair of time
While it is a family gathering , when you and your husband will be taken up with a series of events that have been prepared . Especially if the child does not want to stay away from you . To that end , invite the child to play with his cousins and give the kids busy with activities exciting game . So that when evening , you and your husband have time together without interruption .
1 . Determine Who's Returning To Hometown
Most arguments married due to pressure their families to return home . Before going home , talking from far - away days in advance and decide where you and your family will go . Is home to your husband or your place . Give all the logical reasons why this year's Eid should be spent there . If an agreement has been obtained , hubungin parents each if you or your spouse can not spend the holidays in their place .
2 . Costs Incurred
During the holidays and get together with extended family , without knowing you spend money on things that are less important like a play or shopping . Not to mention the preparation of money to nieces and nephews are still small . Many unexpected expenses that can trigger your contention after returning home . For that , the better you estimate expenses , prepare budgets and do not expend more than the money in your wallet . Avoid using a credit card or go to the ATM machine to keep you on your budget .
3 . Relationships with Families
Can not be denied entry into the partner's family is not an easy thing . Some days the residence of his extended family , will be very long if you are not smart taking care of the family. To start a good relationship , you can try to open a conversation with a light discussion to members of his family . If you are in a situation where the law disagreed with you , better give in and agree with his opinion in order to avoid an unpleasant atmosphere during your visit . Avoid cool themselves with a mobile phone or other gadget to give you the impression the family honoring her husband .
4 . Together with a pair of time
While it is a family gathering , when you and your husband will be taken up with a series of events that have been prepared . Especially if the child does not want to stay away from you . To that end , invite the child to play with his cousins and give the kids busy with activities exciting game . So that when evening , you and your husband have time together without interruption .
