Compatibility test With Couple
How fit you are with your partner ? The more we have in common is usually considered to be suitable . What about the notion that opposites are complementary pairing ?
Imagine , if former President Soeharto 's wife, Ibu Tien but instead she sees Oka , Hindu spiritual leader who continued the teachings of Mahatma Gandhi . Or imagine , if President Megawati who speak little known by the public that her husband was not Taufik Kiemas who had great political ambitions , but who is good Leysus Typhoon or stomach churning .
"No match , " may be among you who commented so . Pak Harto may not be in power 32 years . Or perhaps the fate of Indonesia will be different ? And maybe not even Mrs. Megawati became president . In outline there are two theories that talk about building a good relationship . Most psychologists talk about the theory of complementation , namely that each partner has the opposite characteristics and attitudes . They are interested precisely because there is a difference , and then can complement each other , and perfect as a single unit .
Meanwhile other psychologists hold on similarity theory . Research ( in the West ) showed that during their parallel position , then the interests or hobbies , attitudes , and the same background will make it a lasting pair . This makes sense , because the conflict into a narrow space , so the opportunity for greater happy .
Have the same hobbies and interests can help couples lasting . Just because they can not do something together, but also can 'connect ' when talking .
Quiz created by psychology experts from the U.S. , Dr . Glenn Wilson , the following could be a tool to test whether you and your partner really fit . If it was not suitable , as long as you both know the situation and be able to accept it, of course happiness can still be yours .
Interpersonal Relationship Quality
Choose one answer that best suits you , circle the letter in front of him !
1 . Do you often think about ending the relationship with a partner ?
a. How painful if you both get separated .
b . The idea emerged when being fed up with your partner .
c . It came almost every day .
2 . How often do you and your partner share a secret story ?
a. You always told each other all the fears , fantasies , and inner feelings .
b . There are things in life that you still keep a personal secret .
c . Your relationship is determined by the lies that you are doing at all times .
3 . When your birthday , your partner will :
a. By instinct know exactly what you want .
b . It could be to buy something , but you will have to switch to the store .
c . Spending a lot of money to buy gifts that are not useful .
4 . Are you happy to be alone ?
a. Your spouse is the most exciting of your life .
b . You feel that separation from each other keeps you captivated .
c . You try to eliminate boredom by presenting many friends .
5 . Types of disagreements which do you have?
a. Disagreement is fine but immediately sought a way out .
b . There are some topics that you think are better not discussed .
c . You always bickering , both for small and large problems .
6 . If your partner is the best option ?
a. You have never met anyone else that makes you very meaningful .
b . You believe that life is a compromise , and you can do well .
c . You pick the best of the bad , and the hope that better will emerge .
7 . You arrive at home overheated and exhausted . Your partner will :
a. Allow you to get angry , then do your best to appear back laughter and jokes .
b . Get a drink then leave your while.
c . You stormed the problem , before you had time to sit down .
8 . When going to a party you 're always looking for :
a. Exciting conversation .
b . New friendships .
c . A replacement for your partner .
9 . You caught your partner involved close contact with people who are very attractive . which
Your notice is :
a. You were very clear inability to satisfy them .
b . You are not young anymore .
c . Losing your financial resources .
10.Bagaimana you describe the relationship with your spouse ?
a. Very perfect lovers .
b . Full of passion , but there are ups and downs .
c . Better than loneliness .
How to calculate and interpret :
This quiz illustrates the quality of your interpersonal relationships with your partner. This factor is very important to measure whether a relationship can be a smooth and lasting . How to calculate it , give the value 1 on the option ' c ' , a value of 2 for option ' b ' , and a value of 3 for option 'a' , then total .
Number of > 25 indicates that your partner is perfect .
Number 20-24 indicates average or passable match .
Number of 15-19 indicates a high level of dissatisfaction .
10-14 indicate the number of very severe
How fit you are with your partner ? The more we have in common is usually considered to be suitable . What about the notion that opposites are complementary pairing ?
Imagine , if former President Soeharto 's wife, Ibu Tien but instead she sees Oka , Hindu spiritual leader who continued the teachings of Mahatma Gandhi . Or imagine , if President Megawati who speak little known by the public that her husband was not Taufik Kiemas who had great political ambitions , but who is good Leysus Typhoon or stomach churning .
"No match , " may be among you who commented so . Pak Harto may not be in power 32 years . Or perhaps the fate of Indonesia will be different ? And maybe not even Mrs. Megawati became president . In outline there are two theories that talk about building a good relationship . Most psychologists talk about the theory of complementation , namely that each partner has the opposite characteristics and attitudes . They are interested precisely because there is a difference , and then can complement each other , and perfect as a single unit .
Meanwhile other psychologists hold on similarity theory . Research ( in the West ) showed that during their parallel position , then the interests or hobbies , attitudes , and the same background will make it a lasting pair . This makes sense , because the conflict into a narrow space , so the opportunity for greater happy .
Have the same hobbies and interests can help couples lasting . Just because they can not do something together, but also can 'connect ' when talking .
Quiz created by psychology experts from the U.S. , Dr . Glenn Wilson , the following could be a tool to test whether you and your partner really fit . If it was not suitable , as long as you both know the situation and be able to accept it, of course happiness can still be yours .
Interpersonal Relationship Quality
Choose one answer that best suits you , circle the letter in front of him !
1 . Do you often think about ending the relationship with a partner ?
a. How painful if you both get separated .
b . The idea emerged when being fed up with your partner .
c . It came almost every day .
2 . How often do you and your partner share a secret story ?
a. You always told each other all the fears , fantasies , and inner feelings .
b . There are things in life that you still keep a personal secret .
c . Your relationship is determined by the lies that you are doing at all times .
3 . When your birthday , your partner will :
a. By instinct know exactly what you want .
b . It could be to buy something , but you will have to switch to the store .
c . Spending a lot of money to buy gifts that are not useful .
4 . Are you happy to be alone ?
a. Your spouse is the most exciting of your life .
b . You feel that separation from each other keeps you captivated .
c . You try to eliminate boredom by presenting many friends .
5 . Types of disagreements which do you have?
a. Disagreement is fine but immediately sought a way out .
b . There are some topics that you think are better not discussed .
c . You always bickering , both for small and large problems .
6 . If your partner is the best option ?
a. You have never met anyone else that makes you very meaningful .
b . You believe that life is a compromise , and you can do well .
c . You pick the best of the bad , and the hope that better will emerge .
7 . You arrive at home overheated and exhausted . Your partner will :
a. Allow you to get angry , then do your best to appear back laughter and jokes .
b . Get a drink then leave your while.
c . You stormed the problem , before you had time to sit down .
8 . When going to a party you 're always looking for :
a. Exciting conversation .
b . New friendships .
c . A replacement for your partner .
9 . You caught your partner involved close contact with people who are very attractive . which
Your notice is :
a. You were very clear inability to satisfy them .
b . You are not young anymore .
c . Losing your financial resources .
10.Bagaimana you describe the relationship with your spouse ?
a. Very perfect lovers .
b . Full of passion , but there are ups and downs .
c . Better than loneliness .
How to calculate and interpret :
This quiz illustrates the quality of your interpersonal relationships with your partner. This factor is very important to measure whether a relationship can be a smooth and lasting . How to calculate it , give the value 1 on the option ' c ' , a value of 2 for option ' b ' , and a value of 3 for option 'a' , then total .
Number of > 25 indicates that your partner is perfect .
Number 20-24 indicates average or passable match .
Number of 15-19 indicates a high level of dissatisfaction .
10-14 indicate the number of very severe
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