Sunday, October 6, 2013

Fun , The Long Marriage Couple Rarely Fight


Fun , The Long Marriage Couple Rarely Fight
Not a bit alarming new marriage partner would not lasting as often tinged quarrel . Try to remove that worry because according to the latest research , the longer the age of marriage , the fight will be more rare .

In a study by the University of San Francisco State was revealed as the older couple , they become more able to resolve the dispute . How to solve it by simply changing the subject a matter for debate .

This study was conducted involving 127 married couples long . All respondents were followed for 13 years . Their activities during the discussion or talk for 15 minutes about the financial problems of households to be recorded .

As quoted by Web MD , research published in the Journal of Marriage and Family is made to see if the pair are still often use the wrong communication style along the length of marriage . Communication styles jeopardize this relationship is a push-pull pattern . While doing this , one of the parties or the press will blame his partner for change . While those who choose to avoid blame or suppressed and discuss problems .

Communication styles as described above led to the destruction of the researchers believed a marriage relationship . That's because the lead partner communication style is difficult to reach an agreement when the conflict . And generally it is experienced by young couples .

Appropriate research , the push-pull communication pattern is continued throughout the wedding . But as you age couples , they tend to be easier to change the subject or divert the attention of the quarrel .

Why do more and more older couples can overcome fights ? According to research it because this couple has taken many years to voice their displeasure . So rather than continue to fight , they chose to avoid talking that sucks .

"The age and length of marriage plays an important role in this regard , " said the study 's author , Sarah Holley who is also an assistant professor of psychology and director in Relationships , Emotion and Health Lab , San Francisco State University .

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